# 2022.5.17

Sent a letter out:

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《The letter》


Hi Mei!



Sincerely write this letter to you.

I still remember that last time you say that you don’t want me to talk to you only if it related to jobs.

Well, now, it is related to the job.

It’s about my career path.



I recently found two jobs. 

One is in epam. (later we'll see if it is possible before the night

Another is in a small company, where they ask me to do the flutter development for the blockchains.



I’m here to ask you for advice because I think you are important to me. 

I have a Netherlands friend, he said it’s not about the money or position I got, it’s about the relationship between you and me.

He said that I should consider talking with you in person. So that we could have some common vision or values.



I wanted to, but I’m afraid that you’ll refuse.

So let me explain my vision of mine:

I have to be strong enough to be able to go out and find a job at Google.

Then I could be qualified to be your boyfriend. This is career-only.

For the education degree, I’m afraid	that I have to go to school again to fulfill something that’s missing in my life.

And the last one is the life status: I want to buy a house in the countryside, in a foreign country. Then I’ll just do some remote job as a software engineer for a living.



This is my vision so far. I don’t know if it's gonna be real or not. But at least I got something to pursue.



How do you think, will you be willing to join me if I made all those things come into reality?



And most importantly, would you agree that going out from my current position is the best way to achieve what I’ve dreamed about?



------ hero hu (who thinks you are important
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突然想起来了，在面试的时候也不能说自己的 income、自己理想的生活、下一个方向。。。

> 我竟然全讲了