Arguing?

Life is all about reinforcement learning.

You keep trying. Do a thing or not.

The more rewards you get, the more useful your thoughts could be.

That's why people sometimes say 'fighting is better than arguing'.

Control your life

If you can't save yourself, nobody can save you.

Because that's your life. If you don't care about yourself, who cares about you?

Control yourself means to control every part of you.

It also means sometimes, you have to do what you dislike to do if it gets benefits in the long term.